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chloes_dad's picture

Hi Dads, I'm in the beginning stages of researching pre-schools and kindergartens and I have heard good things about Montessori schools and their approach to learning. Do any of you have any opinions, thoughts experiences with Montessori schools that you would share with me?

Thanks in advance,

Chloe's Dad

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jzimmerman's picture

I just wrote a book on this then my computer ate it.
Short version.

Go check a few out. We love the concept and will be sending our daughter to one at 15months.
It's an incredible education experience, social awareness, and it costs the same as most day care facilities. Get more for the money - about $1K a month for 5 days/wk. in the Western burbs of Chicago.

John

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My wife and I did the research over the summer in Saint Charles and Batavia. We will definitely be sending our little girl to Montessori at 15 months. It was very impressive how they educate children on social responsibility at a young age. The 2-3 year olds were all around a small table having breakfast together drinking from glasses, and eating from bowls (dry cereal). They then washed their own dishes at a small sink (play modeling). The 5-6 year olds were playing in a room putting maps together - capitals of states, and there was one girl beating a nail with hammer in a block of wood. :) Kids were playing in the playground as well. The schools allow them to learn how to be an adult but it does not restrict them from playing. Kids will be kids no matter what. That's the beauty of it.

We have a friend that was a Montessori teacher for years (now a business owner of child learning products) and watching her little Benjamin grow up is incredbile. The kid is 4 and can do incredible feats. Speak bits of German, Russian, Chinese, Spanish and he understands the logic and rules of pronunciation. I have to admit. It freaked my wife and I out at first - this genius kid - but looking at it after a few days, we realize the potential a child has during the key education years of their lives. Kids are only sponges for so long.

A second aspect of this is child care. If you compare cost, Montessori and daycares cost about the same. Why not get some real value out of your money and educate your kids at the same time? Good luck. The real message is: visit one or 2 and get a feel for it. We liked 1 that we visited and loved the 2nd one.

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2forthepriceof2's picture

My wife is a seasoned preschool teacher and we are both long-time advocates of the Reggio Amelia philosophy of early childhood education. Recently my wife had the opportunity to take a position at a new Montessouri school opening in our neighborhood, so we looked into it.

What we found was that Montessori is probably a great program for many, but it just wasn't for us. From what I could gather personally, there was an emphasis on "everything in it's right place." While my wife and I agree that it's good and healthy to teach young children what is designed to be used for what, where certain things are designed to fit and most importantly, the safest way to go about routines and the use of tools, toys and other objects, we did find the fundamentals of Montessori to be too restrictive. I should note though, this is coming from parents who let there kids wear two different shoes when they choose to, wear colanders as hats and have play conversations that include mooing cats and meowing ducks (in reality they understand perfectly which animals make what sounds).

Again, we as parents and my wife as a teacher feel that the understanding of order and proper function is important, but we personally value exploration, experimentation and the flexibility associated with these more that we felt would be acceptible in the Montessori environment.

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Hi - I work for Bright Horizons, which manages a variety of child care centers, including some Montessori preschools. Every family is unique, so I can't say this is the best choice for you, but I know the center directors would be happy to address questions directly. You can find more here: http://www.brighthorizons.com/montessori/. You can also search by location for any of our schools.

best wishes,
FG

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A Montessori school is one of my clients (web shop) and in redoing their site I was privy to the full tour of the facility, tons of their literature, very long talks about what the concepts and methods are, etc. It was only a brief brush with them, but it was enough for me to know that it certainly wasn't for me or what I wanted for my child. On the surface it seemed very intriguing, but the more I heard and saw the more it seemed almost like.... well, I won't get into it too much because I understand there may be some fans of the concept on here and I don't want to offend. I'll stop at saying that I didn't want my child to become a zombie. "Rigid freedom" is probably how I would describe my impression of it best.

If you learn more and disagree with my opinions, I still wish you and your child the best with the program. Like I said, I just knew it wasn't for me.

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Hi Dave,

I am an AMI trained Montessori Guide and am currently working in St. Paul, MN. I find your comment a little strange and am wondering what observations led you to think of children receiving a Montessori education as "zombies". Please, if you have any questions, l'd be happy to answer them. Please check out the AMI website (www.montessori-ami.org) too!
-K

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